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Spela bollen där den ligger

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Spela bollen där den ligger.

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”Spela bollen där den ligger”

Visst är det ett mycket bättre uttryck än att ”gilla läget” eller ”finna sig i det”?

Varför ska vi behöva gilla otrevliga situationer eller passivt finna oss i sakernas tillstånd?

Sakernas tillstånd ändrar sig inte av sig självt. Det otrevliga tappar inte sitt ”o-” bara för att vi väntar.

Vill vi ha en chans att få bollen i mål måste vi spela den. Och vi kan inte spela den från någon annanstans än där den råkar ligga eller (i Wayne Gretzkys anda) där den kommer att vara när vi kommer fram. Aktivt men förankrat i verkligheten. Självklart! Enkelt!

Precis som att vi inte kan vägra att förändras i en värld runtom oss som förändras snabbare än någonsin, på alla sätt. Samtidigt. Överallt. Återstår då att själv bestämma hur vi vill förändras, låta andra bestämma åt sig, eller bli kvar i dammet och undra vad som hände.

Eller vad tycker du?

Ska vi kröka rygg och finna oss, till och med gilla det? Eller ska vi aktivt påverka spelet efter bästa förmåga?

(De som känner mig väl får gärna le lite åt att denne usle bollspelares favorituttryck i ämnet kommer från fotbollens värld. Det bjuder jag gärna på.)

Tack för inspirationen till denna fundering, Niklas Delmar.

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